Your life Your way :)

Life come’s at us from darkness, And each one is on his own, you may choose to face it with your head held high, or break it by giving up on it. Life is nothing but living it like its just another day but with a slight change; a new lesson is learnt everday. And that new lesson is just an addition to the chapter your life will publish for you, which will ultimately judge what your entire life was about based on these chapters and its contents. And yes, the writer of  this book is YOU and YOU are the protagonist.

Life doesn’t come easy to anybody. And who wants an easy life anyway. What is life without that adrenaline rush? Without that challenge and the struggle? Life is not just living , it’s everything in the middle, From the time you were born till the time you die. There’s really no fun in living a perfect life! Take risks! Make mistakes! Go crazy ! Do something you won’t regret, because that mistake made you try something new! Take chances and don’t shy away if you fail at it. The day you fail in something is when you realize you have something to work upon and face that challenge. And the day you just refuse to give up is when you realize what you’ve gained is experience from this battle.

Life is really too short to care about people who didn’t care or be upset over things which shoudn’t have happened,  ‘cz every minute you spend wasting on something which is upsetting, is a happy moment that you wasted for a lifetime.I believe everything Good or bad,  happens for a reason. If  you don’t face bad things in life,  how will you appreciate the good? You start believing lie’s so that ultimately you learn to trust no one but yourself.  You have to learn to let good things go so that it makes place for new things.

Life is like a Story told in school, it need not have the perfect beginning or the perfect ending but the content that it carries should be strong enough to be INSPIRING. You know you’ve lived your life when someone comes up to you and says “You Inspired Me”. Because if there’s even one person in this world who is living his life idolizing you then thats the greatest gift you can recieve for the battle you’ve won with life.

Living in the moment, and not worrying about what’s going to happen will probably shed half your tension in life. Why care what the future has in store for you as long as your proud of your presen. Life will throw stones at you, and its your decision wheter you make a wall out of it and protect yourself or wheter you try picking those stones and end up getting hurt more. Courage is an element without which you cannot win against life. And courage need not be loud and uproaring it can be an enchanting whisper in your ear encouraging you to try again tomorrow.

You know you’ve lived your life when:

Ø You’ve laughed your lungs out at a silly joke.

Ø You’ve earned respect from the people around you.

Ø You’ve faced everything from a break up to a life threatening operation with COURAGE.

Ø You’ve made a mistake, overcome it, and today look back, and laugh at it.

Ø You’ve Inspired another human being to be living a life like you do.

Ø You’ve learnt from your mistakes

Never look back at life with regret, cz thats something which will pull you back, look ahead and try finding signs in a greener pasture, with “BRING IT ON” written over it and face it with dignity and courage. Because Life is not the boss of you YOUR THE BOSS OF LIFE... You can either get it fired or give it another chance of working well for you. The sole purpose of life itself is to LIVE it, reach out to what you want,  even though with the fear of hurting yourself but with the confidence of gaining a new lesson.

An inspiring anonymous quote says “ Life is like an hourglass, eventually everything hits the bottom, all you have to do is pick it up and turn it around and start afresh.